Fighting With Your Mother In Law
You believe you have tried everything to make her love you, but she can not bring her self to like you, in some cases it only natural, you took her baby from her, and she is jealous, and so are you, you are sometimes jealous without realising you are, you see the way he treats his mum, you sometime feels he loves her more than you, and you take it out on her.
In most cases, fighting ( not physical fight) with your mother in law is one of those things, but you need to work extra hard if you have a difficult and stubborn mother inlaw, remember you can not be stubborn to your mother in law if you say you love your partner or husband, after all without your mother inlaw, there will be no partner or husband.
Believe this when you do your very best and she sees it, knowing you are tring very hard to work things out with her, and you finally get there,you see your motherinlaw will becomes your best friend, but the question is how do you work things out with her, first she is your mother inlaw therefore she is always almost likely to be older you most times, therefore it is morally right to respect them, meaning don’t do the following to her
- Don’t talk back to her
- Don’t be rude
- Show her love and respect
- Listen to her
- Explain things to her if need be
- Always apologise regardless
- Don’t report her to her son
- Don’t make her son take sides
- Be patient with her
- Give her confidence that her son is still hers
- Make time for her
In time you see it will all fall into place, both of you becoming friend, sometimes make be not the best of friends, but accommodating one. Unless you don’t love your husband or you just love frighting than don’t worry about making the effort, but if you love your family and the problem with your mother-in-Law is going out of control, than you should do the following or do something about it.
Remember also you will one day be a mother-in-law your self, and you will love your future daughter-in-law to be all of the above, if that is the case, than you have to start the trend in your family so that every one follows, even your daughter will learn from you on how important it is to be friends with mother-in=laws.
It create peace in family.